Abstract: "Grieving over the deceased","Ni Huan Zhi","cold night "is to reflect typical intellectual life work on modern history of literature . This mirror soft and floury is like through love marriage,not bad get a glimpse of true educated female survival and emotion state. Heroine Zi-Jun,Jin Pei-Zhang,Zeng Shu-Sheng are that love has carried out intrepid brave fighting with,get also once a success. But all-round but deep effect and penetration move downwards in Chinese male right culture,female’s sex connotation be sometimes ignored or be read by the mistake,plus their self’s limitation,that their good with unable or unable treatment of lover love marriage is hit by the about double factor will do is ideal and real contradictious,ultimate love marriage and a ideal cause trend dead end. Their tragedy explains May 4th,from to medium term in the 40’s,although the times already changes,the culture changes is very small,China returns back to the atmosphere not approving in order knowledge female t...